[ Advice to distance yourself from painful experiences ]( http://www.theguardian.com/science/2014/sep/25/aspirin-stiff-upper-lip-best-remedies-broken-heart ) , not rehearse them as a grievance. If the painful experience was an injustice, the one feeling you shouldn't try to weaken is your support for others to whom such an injustice happens.
Ссылка: https://stallman.org/archives/2014-jul-oct.html#26_September_2014_%28Painful_experiences%29